Instead of complaining, whining, or raising your voice, speak softly with clear, concise, respectful, and loving language. Walk away, explaining that you need to collect your thoughts before continuing.
Then plan what you want to say. Sometimes I even write down what I need to communicate so I remember what I need to relationsihp.
Why it works: Men need clear, concise, unemotional language to be able to hear you. Otherwise, they shut it out completely. And we all know how good they can be at doing.
Some examples might be: He needs that and you can give it to. Examples could be: Benefit to you: Men compete with other men and need to measure up. You can validate his worth as a man.
Give him romantic kisses instead of pecks. Physical connection is the only way most men know how to be intimate and intimacy is what makes your relationship special.
Why do we think we can quit doing the things we did when we were first falling in love and expect z relationship to stay strong? That means flirting, being playful, being sexy and sensual, and remembering why we fell in love in the first place.
Flirting is a kind of play and playfulness helps cement your bond. And adding the hoow energy to the mix keeps the sexual side of your relationship alive and vibrant.
Remember this, when the sexual side of your relationship dies, you become roommates at best. Follow Us. Sign in.
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